Resources for subs

 This is a great starter cage veteran subs swear by. It’s a bit pricey, but having a quality, well-fitted cage is a must. (Order in 1st link - have to scroll down to the V5 custom color option for the complete set.) Make sure to read up on how to take your measurements. You can use a string if you don’t have flexible measuring tape.

Order it in one of My choice colors: 

#240 - Turquoise

#140 - Pink with gold sparkles 

#150 - Clear with pink flakes

https://www.holytrainer.com/chastity-lifestyle/device-chastity-shop.asp

 Further information on measuring.

Lovense Hush 2 butt plug

Lovense Edge 2 prostate stimulator

These app controlled devices are some of the best on the market. If you become Mine, I just might summon you one day with one...!

***Always use lube designed for anal with any anal insertable toy! For anal lube, I recommend either good, old-fashioned Crisco vegetable shortening (never double dip!!) or water-based Boy Butter.

I also recommend you put cheap condoms on your anal toys if safe to do so prior to lubing and inserting them to maintain cleanliness & fresh scent.

by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy

Three decades ago, this book and its companion volume "The New Topping Book" began teaching tens of thousands of people the joyous arts of BDSM topping and bottoming - not just "how-to," but "why-to"... the insider details of emotional support and ethical interaction during kinky play. Since then, the growing popularity of BDSM, and the blossoming of the Internet as a source of information and connection, have created a whole new universe of possibilities for players. Now, the completely updated revised New Bottoming Book and New Topping Book give even more insights and ideas, updated for a new millennium, about how to be a successful, popular player! 

XR University, a free-of-charge BDSM tutorial workshop, where our hosts are joined each month by one of your favorite adult stars to discuss and demonstrate a different element of kink! Both beginners and enthusiasts will discover sensual scenes that offer tips to develop their skills, as well as advice on how to initiate and build trust, have an honest dialogue with your partner, and most importantly, how to be safe. The audio PodCast of the show is available on all of the top PodCasting networks worldwide.

by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy

Two decades ago, this book (and its companion volume, The New Bottoming Book) began teaching tens of thousands of people the joyous arts of BDSM topping and bottoming - not just "how-to," but "why-to"... the insider details of emotional support and ethical interaction during kinky play. Since then, the growing popularity of BDSM, and the blossoming of the Internet as a source of information and connection, have created a whole new universe of possibilities for players. Now, the completely updated revised New Topping Book gives even more insights and ideas, updated for a new millennium, about how to be a successful, popular player!